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[, Music, ], hello and welcome to the stafford boxing report.
Everybody knows who i am sheila, i’m stafford and we are the host of the stafford boxing report stafford boxing, the making of champions man, hey hello, everybody! What’S going on we’re glad that you’re here with us today? Yes, sir, there’s a lot going on, there’s a lot going on.
It’S a lot going on, so the title of this podcast show is: what’s going on in the streets, there’s a lot going on so baby.
You want me to go ahead and jump yeah.
You can go ahead.
Well, this uh past tuesday sheila and i was a quick trip on wesley chapel here in atlanta, georgia and i stopped to get us something to drink.
I, like the pineapple papaya tea and you like regular tea, so we don’t drink soda, but we do drink a lot of tea and water, and so when i went into the uh race track no quick trip, it was someone mentioned outside that someone got a gun.
So what i did was i hit behind the lotto machine that they have in the store and it was a gentleman, a young man and he was like well.
I got my strap on me and i told him i said: bro look bro, i’m gon na tell you straight up.
Bro, don’t shoot this way, man, i’m look.
I got to make it to the truck.
I got to make it home to my wife bro.
Don’T do that bro, he said um, i got you so someone came in the store and said that you know they put the guns up or whatever.
So i went in the back to go, get myself as well as sheila some uh tea.
So it could have not been more than maybe about two or three minutes later so i finished getting the tea, i’m walking to the door, the exit door, so sheila comes to the door, said: hey, let’s go right now, so i’m like okay bet, so me and Sheila we just you, know we walking real quickly to the to the vehicle we get inside the vehicle.
Next thing, you know we hear like five gunshots, so me and sheila duncan inside the truck right and so like i had pulled.
I had a cricket in my neck because it was like it was just so spontaneous and just so quick that we just you know, i mean bro, we ducking, and so i drive off like this here and i go in front of the house and we just Sit in there for about 30 minutes, and you know just it, you know, i’m i’m in a state of shock.
This is not something that i experience every day.
This is.
This is something that you know is, i don’t know it was.
It was life’s life-changing, to say the least, and the thing that i can think about was man like what, if sheila would have got hit by one of them straight bullets or what, if i would have got hit by one in straight bullets? You know the thought of me losing my wife or my wife losing me in a senseless situation.
There wasn’t any reason that i know of for there to be any gun play in that particular area.
So i’m sitting there and i’m just thinking in my mind, like man, like you read in the newspaper, you watch it on on the internet, social media, how there may be senseless, uh, gun, violence right and how people may say.
Well, i was at the wrong place at the wrong time.
Two innocent bystanders had nothing to do with what was going on, got caught up in the mist and it just dawned on me how life can just be gone.
Just like that, and so like me and sheila was just sitting there and just you know – and i was just kind of a part of me – began to become angry.
Like oh, thank you baby.
I see more young black men walking around with their pants hanging down with guns hanging out, then i do see them in school acquiring post-secondary education.
You know it’s i in the black community, we have a lot to work on.
I don’t once you discharge that gun in a public setting, so in georgia the gun laws are different.
It’S it’s.
It is uh political season, so you got different political parties.
Saying hey! You have the right to bear arm without having you know, minimum requirements to carry that gun.
It’S pros and cons in this, but i just think that in our community we are so willing to walk around in public places where there is no need for no gun.
But we walking around there with our pants hanging down showing his big old gun and man, like i don’t know, sheila like you know what what was your thought on the whole situation, because i was traumatized i’ma, be honest with you be honest with you, i would Traumatize so so before you say that it is such a blessing and an honor to be here today before y’all um.
We wanted to you, know, list the title what’s going on in the streets, because there’s a lot going on, there’s a lot going on in these streets: foolishness at that there is no productive things going on it’s just the same old same old and so and that’s Where the staffer boxing club incorporated our non-profit organization, comes into play, and you know what baby ain’t gon na lie when we didn’t get caught up in in those bullets that were flying right it.
Let me know that our purpose is the staff of boxing, because if it was time for us to go home to be with god, then it would have happened so that let me know that there’s a purpose for us.
You know what i’m saying and so like we just very grateful just to be here, but i’m sorry to interrupt you go ahead.
I don’t know if it’s because it hasn’t hit me or because i have experienced something like that before.
So it’s between the two.
I did think about it and the same thing.
My husband said: bullets.
Don’T have a name, they don’t go where you may want them to go, they can just ricochet off of anything.
You can be pointing the gun in one direction and to bring this back to the the our babies, our babies, and you know what it was some.
It was some kids out there.
Our babies have been getting killed from people shooting guns, i’m talking about babies who are either in pampers and they may be under the age of two and then of course, two and up in pre-k first grade or even the youth pre-teens young adults.
It’S sad.
We have to find something we have to do something to get this word out.
I don’t know what it is because nobody’s listening, everybody’s listening to the wrong thing.
You have the entertainment business but they’re still in the streets, you have the entertainment business and i totally get it a lot of people want to rap or sing about their experience.
Well, if you’re going to do that, then you need to come back with.
I went through this.
I experienced this, but don’t you do this? You don’t have to experience and that’s a part of people’s testimony.
Our testimony is to talk about things that we know things we’ve been through things.
We’Ve done.
That may not have been right and then, when we recognize certain things with the youth or even adults, we want to talk about that and help them to make better decisions, because we know that what we went through, we don’t want anybody else to go through my Thing is man: what’s the purpose of you shooting in a public environment? It’S pride.
It’S i don’t know man, it’s it’s like now, there’s good rap, music and there’s bad rap music.
You understand and and there’s rocks.
I i understand that people see rapping as a way to get out that environment and take care of their family, but when i took a class called macro and micro economics supply and demand, the supply is overwhelming, bro the demand.
You know what i mean and it’s like in our community, the black community.
We only feel that we can get out the community by rapping or playing sports and – and i get it, man like i play basketball.
So i’m not trying to say that having aspirations to be a professional athlete is a bad thing, but we need more lawyers, judges.
We need judges, doctors, we need doctors, we need truthful politicians, we need truthful politicians, those that won’t compromise and break the law and and do business under the under the table.
That gon na put you in a situation where you about to do federal time.
I’Ve seen too many of our black politicians get elected into those office and then turn around be on the news, because you caught up in some scandal and you about to get some time and that right there and that right there uh dampens the confidence in the Black community saying that man, why is it that all our black politicians are doing illegal things and, as a result, it sets a tone in our community that we don’t have black women and black men? Who are people of character that whatever they do, they’re willing to compromise? We got to stop that man.
We got to stop that.
We got to stop that.
I would never run for no politics.
I don’t want to do it.
I don’t want to do it.
I really don’t and i’ve experienced a lot of politics and have received a lot of recommendation like a staffer man, you man, you should run for a public office.
I don’t want to because one of the things i don’t want to get caught up in is somebody saying that i did this and did that and by that being taxpayer money and so forth and so forth.
You are under the microscope even severely and me being a black man.
It you know, i just don’t want it.
It’S not it’s! It’S not that important to me.
I just pray that we can elect those who have character and do the right thing and bring about a level of confidence in our community that young boys and young girls can aspire to be like those elected politicians that are here to serve our community they’re supposed To be servant, leaders, that is what you are elected for, not financial gain you’re, going to get money when you’re elected they put a budget, but you doing deals under the table.
9 out of 10 somebody gon na tell and you’re gon na get caught up and then you’re gon na lose your job.
You’Re gon na lose your freedom and, depending on, if you’re married strong, you might lose that you’re gon na lose respect from your kids.
Then, when you get out, you got ta, you know what i mean.
Those people that you were helping are those people are not going to be there for you, facts and i want to go off of what you just said.
Compromising want to talk about just very shortly about being honest and telling the truth.
There have been many people before us now that someone lied just straight out lied or they told a little bit of the truth, but they didn’t tell it all and they didn’t say anything about what they said and gassing it up, which means making it something more.
When the environment, the pres, the presentation or the aura wasn’t even there, it wasn’t even there.
It wasn’t even that there are people that are on death row or have been on death row that have been in jail that have been in prison families, casted them out.
Friends, casted them out lost their jobs, jobs, their businesses, credibility reputation.
Yes, i was just gon na say that too and there’s one thing that i can well many things that i can tell you about us, but as we go on, i understand that you have to see those actions behind the words and we don’t have any problem.
I’Ve said before how we are on this: podcast is the same of when we’re behind closed doors, and nobody even sees us there’s no, where one way and then, if somebody sees us out and about they’re like oh, my gosh, i can’t believe that no negative, when You don’t tell the truth or half and gas it up.
You can really ruin something: ruin.
Somebody’S life point blank period, what they say and end a story, and i am a victim of someone not telling the truth and i’m having to fight for my life.
So a person told me: well: if you didn’t do it, then you’ll be vindicated.
First of all, i don’t.
I only want.
I don’t even know how i even got into that situation and, to be honest, it was my own family.
It was my own family and not trying to talk about it too much.
I even went to the church and asked for help because i didn’t know i didn’t know what to do.
I’M confused, i’m lost, i’m i’m hurt, i’m i’m just trying to figure out.
What’S god’s plan in this situation etc, but the situation tarnished my name, it was horrific to say the least.
So like sheila was saying, i encourage everyone.
Man, be honest man, don’t don’t don’t give false statements about something that didn’t happen, because that can change the course of somebody’s lives.
They might even take their life, they might even take their life because of that lie gaining momentum and to some it sounds truthful and so from that point on, someone take their lives their life.
And then you are accountable for that life that you ruined by dishonesty and so don’t think that, because you said that lie that repercussion is not going to come behind.
It may not come that day or that month or that year.
But it’s coming because you cannot just destroy someone’s life and thinking that your life will prosper.
It don’t work like that.
It really don’t and we got to as a community we got to tighten up.
Education should be the focal point of what we want to accomplish, and financial literacy and financial literacy, but in order to understand financial literacy, you got to have education, you got you got to learn how to read and write.
It’S important add, multiply, divide, arithmetic, arithmetic, all those things are necessary to be successful and understand about financial literacy.
We taking each other lives for senseless stuff, man for a dollar for twenty dollars or stepping on on somebody’s shoes or or or some type of internet beef and all this other type stuff.
I’Ve never seen this type of behavior before where someone says something on the internet, and then you go to that person’s house.
You go to that person house and you act in an aggressive, violent behavior, now mind you all this stuff is being once you put it on the internet.
It’S there forever because someone’s going to record it download it on on that hard drive or phone or share it.
It’S just going to travel now, 10 years from now.
You know people can use that as evidence against you in the court of law.
It’S it’s! It’S like we’re doing on we doing foolish things.
This is not what our ancestors died for, bro, it’s, not it’s not, and, as a matter of fact, i want to say about another incident that happened so that was tuesday.
So thursday we leaving the gym and we live in l.
a fitness and we go to the halal place.
We we’re not muslim, we christians, but over there in the halal community in the muslim community.
It’S like a diamond in the rough for us like they know who we are man.
They show us the utmost, respect, man, they treat me and my wife real good man.
We eat good.
We know that the product that they serving is a1.
It’S a lot healthier than some of these other establishments, but like we were like 10 seconds away from another shooting in milan baby.
No, we pull up.
We see a lot of commotion going on.
We get out we what what happened? Man, you just missed it 10 seconds ago.
This guy asked this guy for some money.
The dude said he didn’t have it.
He showed his gun and the dude said something, but he had his gun.
So it was, it was it was, it was fire gunfire being exchanged.
So i’m saying to myself man, we was 10 seconds away from this and then i’m thinking to myself like man, what if me and my wife was sitting in there eating and one of them straight bullets.
You know happened to hit me or her or hit anyone.
That’S sitting down having a meal or just enjoying the fellowship.
I don’t understand this man and it was a young dude too, because when i had talked to the owner on that saturday, he said he knew to do yeah.
It was some type of game activity going on between one game and another game and i’m like bro, so we need more options for these kids to not join gangs.
These gangs are somewhat destroying our community.
They have everybody scared.
They have everybody scared.
So that’s why we believe that the staffer boxing club will be an asset to the community and on the overlay you will see our cash app.
This cash app goes to the stafford boxing club, our non-profit organization.
So if you support us, if you like what we stand for, if you like the podcast show, we appreciate your your financial donation to the stafford boxing club.
Our cash app is stafford boxing, oh with dollar, sign staff.
For boxing, like i say, this uh goes straight to our non-profit organization to help at-risk you anything, you want to say yes and i will be answering the question.
That’S on the comments, but to piggyback off what my husband was saying with the staffer boxing club.
It is a yearly program, so it will be in after school and also during the summer.
We, the kids, will be in a safe place, a clean place, it’s a mentoring program where they will be getting tutored.
They will be getting help with their classes, their homework and with their homework before they can even do any boxing.
They will have to get yeah finish, their homework get into their books and, of course they will have to eat because in dekalb county they no longer have the free meal for the kids but baby.
I um see that’s another thing with the stafford boxing.
We will.
We will be partnering with another uh food bank here in atlanta and they will provide us with food for our youth in our program and it’s good food.
I ain’t talking about that.
Cheap food is is premium because we pushing p for premium right because we want to introduce them to a healthy lifestyle and they start with nutrition, and it does and then with the physical fitness, we’re also um.
When we, we need a van, because we’re going to be picking the kids up and from school and we’re going to also drop them off, because helping the kids is also helping the family.
We know that either [ Music, ], mom or dad or whomever caretaker whomever our guardian, who are taking care of their child or their children, are going to need help and that takes a lot of the burden off of them as well.
They’Ll be learning about financial literacy, we will be helping them with, they will actually have resources available to them where they would wouldn’t really even have any that are in other communities, and that’s what’s also missing too, is the resources that they don’t have.
So if you believe in the stafford boxing initiative, excuse me the staff are boxing club initiative and, if you believe in myself and sheila will greatly appreciate your support.
As i said, the cash app is on the bottom stafford boxing cash app, okay, so bond qq.
Much respect – and he also asked – is la fitness expensive.
Actually, no, no, it’s not where and everything is also math related, and he said i mean i don’t know.
I can’t no.
She said i’m sorry because i can’t see i have glasses.
No disrespect boxing teaches self-destruct.
Yes, yes, absolutely, however, boxing is no match to to a straight bullet, so we need to the gun.
Laws need to tighten up man, because just seeing these boys walk around with sticks all in their pants out, you know what man, if your pants down it, gon na hold you down.
But if you pull your pants up, you want to come up.
Man pull your pants up man, i mean i’m like this hell.
If you walking around with your pants down, she pull them.
Hoes out, just take them off, and it also will take them.
Holes off man and we’ll also be teaching communication, because communicating is key, especially with each other, so, for instance, if someone is disrespecting you sometimes you just don’t need to even say anything.
Sometimes you just need to walk away and say absolutely nothing.
That is a form of communication.
Also, if you are in a disagreement with somebody, communication is key, just how we are talking now, yeah, but sometimes, but sometimes communication like with you and i, when i got with my husband, i had to learn how to communicate the proper way.
My type of communication was not was not acceptable; it would have gotten me into a lot of trouble hold on.
Let me tell you this your story.
So one day me and sheila had some heated fellowship.
You know, that’s what we call a heated fellowship, and so i was i was.
I was standing by the door, so she would start moving the bed to the side and moving the furniture to the side and all that and i’m like i’m like.
What’S what’s this all about and then you said well, i thought we were gon na.
You know fight, i’m like what i’m like man, what type of relationship you been, i said, look we’re gon na talk, abusive relationships, so so that’s when she began to learn how to communicate with me, i’m not that aggressive type guy i like to talk talk it Out see, we can come to a mutual understanding and that’s something that has took time to develop and i’m so proud of sheila in her communication style and her approach, not only with me but with life, and it’s important to have that communication.
Uh skill set because it can get you out a lot of trouble and it can also create opportunities.
When you sit down at the table and your negotiation excuse me negotiating your boxing contract.
You must have proper communication skills with the other person who’s going to provide that that money that bread, that that walk.
You must have the the communication skill set to be able to convince this person that them putting up their money that they’re going to receive a return on investment.
Your communication skill set is going to seal the deal like an old saying in the neighborhood conversation rule.
The nation conversation gets you paid, they is, is that’s just how the law works.
Yeah you! When you negotiate, you don’t want to leave anything on the table.
Oh yeah, that’s dr miles from negotiation.
Oh yes, and shout out to dr newman, and also shout out to all of my professors at gsu and my journalism class.
Thank you.
Oh as you can see, i’m using everything that i learned too, and we have some more comments.
Rcw man, let me tell you about rob: watson, oh hey ralph man, yo.
So ralph is a very conservative man.
He is proud and i met ralph.
Maybe about i got y’all in the comments i met ralph about maybe 10 12.
Now i say about 12 years.
I don’t know it.
Let me see: okay, we’ve been married going to 14.
, so i knew ralph, maybe three years 14.
So i’ve been known around good lord by 17 years right, so i met ralph at a uh uh, a venture capital event, meaning entrepreneurs like myself.
Go to this event and we pitch our ideas to a group of investors, something like shark tank.
So rob comes up to me afterwards and he said uh.
He was real smooth.
He was he had his blue suit on with a red tie, white shirt.
Then he had his initials on his uh on on his uh.
His shirt had rcw and i was like okay bet so me and rob got together and i’m not gon na lie me and ralph had some tough times and we had some some great times.
But one thing i can say about: ralph cornelius watson, jr, that man loved me man and yeah, and you know what he don’t look like me and often times from my experience.
I get more support from people that don’t look like me.
Then i do that people look like me for whatever reason i don’t know, but that’s something in the black community that we need to address, because i see the hispanic community.
They are living together, working together and playing together.
Women get along too, but i’m not saying that they might not have heated fellowship when they’re in the home or but i remember one time, my father, i remember one time my husband and i had went to stone mountain park and it was like everybody had a Role, the women were preparing the food to put on the grill, then the men would put the food on the grill and then the men would be off just having fun chatting shooting the breeze, and then the women were still doing what they were doing.
You talking about the the hispanic folks, yes, it’s like they’re all prepared, they all play they’ll work and play their role, and then you know what else too, instead of saying the crabs in the bucket.
You know, crabs aren’t meant to be in buckets.
Wild crabs actually work together.
Well, i didn’t know that yeah wild crabs actually work together.
So we’re going to keep on putting this out, we have to, we have to work together.
We have to uh let their pride go.
I think also there’s a lot of healing that needs to be established and a lot of accountability within ourselves, because at times we say we don’t want to change, we don’t have to change and we’ve gotten comfortable and then also you may be around people and family That just haven’t held you accountable and you just don’t know so we have a lot of work to do.
I’M sorry, i just had to say that no use this okay look.
Let’S do the um comments real, quick, so cedric sports training – hey, yes, communication is very important.
Then i hope i’m saying your name right bond q, q yo.
Is this the og cedric no, this is this is cedric from cedric and mike.
I wasn’t on that.
One.
No, but i’m telling you who it is, i’m talking about bond q she’s, asking that question baby.
That’S! Oh, my bad! My bad cedric! What’S up, my bar is about to say centric sports training, yes, lol, cedric sports training, much respect to staff for boxing great conversation, von q, shilin stafford, my brother, my homie cedric also here listening to y’all, speak bond q, q, cedric and mike and witherspoon witherspoon are The homies, oh yeah, big facts and cedric hold on baby.
This is the talking fight family.
Yes, yes, i wish he was about to say that you know straight up.
Man, listen! The talking fight has a different podcasts.
You got me and sheila.
You got cedric and mike you got natalie, and then you got the guy that from ringside magazine and then you have.
I think we may have somebody else.
Sorry, i don’t know your name he’s the one that talks about the history, because, because we watched we’ve watched him like he really knows the history, hey cedric and mike and cedric and mike is where i started from yeah.
You know what i was just about to say that cedric and mike man, i want to say thank you, thank you, bro for real for inviting my wife um pouring that 93 in her gas tank matter of fact, that jet fuse.
So she can fly the confidence that you instilled in her.
I remember telling her when she was uh.
It was a last semester at georgia state i was like baby, you know what you need to you know really uh upgrade your knowledge in the boxing history and i was like you need to go on either facebook linkedin all these social medias, so she was on Linkedin one day and she ran across y’all talking and cedric and mike you know, start giving her a shout out and she was like baby uh mike and cedric had shouted me out.
I said: that’s the one stay with them and then i start listening to you guys.
Man, and i must say man y’all are so educated with rich uh information is, is very informative.
I mean it’s like i don’t know it’s like yeah or to me.
In my humble opinion, boxing encyclopedias or whatever you know what i mean and man.
I appreciate how y’all embrace my wife, you know a woman, you know, because sometimes men have a difficult time embracing women in different industries.
They have their own.
They have free spirit, oh yeah, so so, like uh said you get mike a one, no cappuccino.
Thank you to the whole talking fight family and, if there’s anybody else, that’s going to be joining hello and welcome.
I don’t know, but i’m just welcoming, i want to say this again heavenly father.
I want to say thank you so much for not allowing those straight bullets that was fired sensely since since since lee, yes, since lee in the parking lot at quik trip.
I i want to say thank you that you giving us this opportunity to sit before this camera and on this podcast to to talk about what’s going on in the streets, and this is not only an atlanta thing, it’s everything like memphis.
This is a epidemic.
That’S going on in the united states, this gun violence, it is, it is crazy.
We are losing so many lives each year for no reason for no reason, and we was at the mall what friday yeah we was at the mall friday.
I had to get my wife, uh um eyebrows done and all that other type stuff you know, got to keep the queen right.
So in the back of my mind – and i never felt this way until i start seeing things on the internet – about gun violence, meaning i’m like baby man – i hope nobody don’t walk up in here and just start shooting yeah.
I did start thinking that way.
Just like the senseless shooting in memphis, the young dude walked into autozone.
He on social media live and thinking it’s a game and you taking people lives, bro you’re not only affecting your family, but you affecting the families whom you hurt and the community, and so i hope they give you alphabet life.
I was about to say the other word man bro, that was that was fraud, man that was so lame with you bro to go into a public place of business and start killing innocent people.
I say that not only to you, but all you fools, who do foolish things like that man, man, you it’s like y’all, don’t even have no care in the world like no, no type of respect for the next person bro, you just take people’s lives and thinking.
It’S sweet but then, when you go up in front of that judge and you asking for mercy undefined but take that, but you need to take all that.
You need to take all that breath and they start crying.
You start crying and then, when you get behind that gated community and the booty band is gon na be on you, bro cause you violated, you violated and you put the community at risk with senseless behavior man go to school, bruh go to college bro i mean I tell everybody: man go to college bro, it’s one of the best experiences ever bro.
You meet future bosses.
You meet a whole bunch of people from all walks of life.
Bruh, it’s a whole different world man.
It’S a great experience.
You get to go to the football games, you get to go to the basketball games.
You get to go to the cafeteria.
With your player partners you get to eat at the cafeteria.
You get to meet folks who, in different industries that go man i’ll tell you man, your role today is going to be.
Then man, you meet other people like-minded, so you so you’re cool with some folks at this university, but then they got folks that go to other universities, and so in this world that we live in a lot of times.
It’S not what you know.
It’S who you know man go to college man.
We need more black men, going, i’m telling staff for boxing man when you come in here, bruh, i’m telling right now.
Bro we going to be focused on this education man.
Yes, we’re going to instill.
These boxing discipline characteristics in you, but brett.
We want you to be successful outside the boxing ring meaning.
So this is what we striving for, and this is our uh goal and mission statement.
We want the community to say: oh you part of that staffer boxing club.
Oh, my god, i don’t know what they’re doing at that program, but you man, the kids, are well mannered.
That’S what we aiming for! That’S why it’s so important to receive support from the community so that these kids can have an outlet.
Everything is commercialized, but they don’t have an outlet.
So now their outlet is drawing joint, joining gangs.
Uh joining other groups experiencing things that kids at that age should not be experiencing for real.
These little kids should have the opportunity to to enjoy their childhood and be children and be children, man not them having to grow up so fast that they no longer uh experience childhood, but now they forced into adulthood and then, when they get into their adulthood.
Now they resorting back to their childhood because they didn’t get an opportunity to have a childhood.
It was robbed of them.
We have to uh um, protect our valuable asset and that’s our kids.
We no longer should think about ourselves.
We should think about serving our youth.
Those are our prized possessions.
I know most folks said man.
I got that i got to have this and i got to have to bling and i got and there’s nothing wrong with that.
But bruh next year next month, they’re going to come out with a new car they’re gon na, come out with a new design.
Uh a new record gon na come out a new dance and that’s the thing bro.
We always coming out with these dances.
But yet we not making an impact, we’re not sitting at the table across so many white folks talking about uh diversity, inclusion and – and you know, other economic growth opportunities salute to roland martin – salute to dr rashad richie man.
I enjoy watching them brothers, i do and it’s it’s crazy.
Like roland martin said on his podcast show, he said he made a comment about um.
What’S his name nick cannon, yeah nick cannon and it was a a whole bunch of interactions, but then, when he had talked about how to get some money, you know and secure government contracts, it wasn’t no interaction that was going on the post.
So it’s like negativity, get more attention than positivity, but we’re here to change that for boxing is here to change that stafford and sheila is here to change the narrative about black marriages in our community.
We serious about this here.
We want the kids to see something positive and i didn’t gave up my life to serve god.
So this is my calling so i’m willing to go out if this is what it is and what it is.
I got another calling and i’m standing on business on it and we gon na see what’s going on, and i ain’t gon na say that, because i know that you watching me thinking that i’m gon na say something to uh jeopardize the situation that i got going On but i’m not i’m smart like that, so scrapbook boxing is here: oh scrapbook box, and i’m so glad that you’re here i want you to please email, your contact information.
Your phone number scratches scrap book boxing.
It’S stafford boxing enterprises at gmail.
com and then he said, peace to the queen, my sister sheila and my brother stafford how’s.
It going real talk, love the message: bond q, eq, said: fax, new iphone new shoes is a great role model.
She said that cedric was able to get andre ward on the stream.
That’S what’s up.
Yeah um, andre ward is a great guy.
I’Ve watched him on uh youtube.
Some clips on youtube he’s undefeated, he went undefeated uh jay prince was his manager.
Oh okay, yeah and uh.
I seen a clip of him and uh.
What’S his name stevenson, um um? What’S my man name from newark, shacora, stevenson? Okay, oh okay! So they were like.
You know.
You know just playing around and i did yeah.
I did see that he was like and andre ward was like.
That was funny i like that.
But yes, andre ward is a great person and uh, i’m glad that he had an opportunity to be interviewed by the talking fight family and i hope that people will go and look at that.
Video and uh run up the numbers and that’s another thing.
People run up the numbers on foolish things, so we asking you to run up the numbers on this like share and subscribe to the talk and fight uh podcast, as you will see, stafford and sheila, and also you will see cedric and mike graham natalie.
I watched um and then there’s somebody else, tim witherspoon too.
Oh yeah, uh fridays, yeah yeah on fridays.
I think at seven o’clock p.
m, but uh i watched natalie some of natalie’s fight.
Oh my gosh, oh yeah natalie.
She was a beast.
We would love to interview.
You on the stafford boxing report, the invitation been sent.
I this is my humble opinion she would have that would have been a mean match between her and clarissa.
If her and clarissa but i’ma be honest with you, i’m not just saying this because natalie is his family, but i think she would have given clarissa the business you think so she, i think, she’s worse than clarissa.
She lagoon she’s about that life.
She about that life – oh yeah, she’s from jamaica or something i don’t.
I did some research on her.
I don’t remember.
I think she she’s either number one or number two of one: the best boxer either one it’s either number one or number two yeah, so they postponed the fight september 10th because of the passing of queen, oh yeah.
If you all want to win, i had to write this down right here, but if you all want to win one of our new bands, of course, like i always say yeah, my wrist is, if you can give me this answer now: michaela and alicia alicia they’re, Like a rolex to me, they’ve been going back and forth and the disrespect is out of this world.
So i’m going to read you what alicia said, but if you can tell me what michaela came back with my gosh, so alicia said you’re, the other word for butt, whooping got post, funk postponed, have fun, making weight again and then michaela.
She came back with something fierce if you can tell me on that post what michaela said send us these put it on the comments on youtube and then once again go to the stafford boxing enterprises gmail.
com, send us your first name and your last name and your Email address and we will send you a oh all, this this glows in the dark, this glows in the dark, this glows in the dark.
So listen we shining in the darkness staff reboxing yeah.
When you cut off the light.
Okay, yeah you’re, going to see us.
We glowing yeah we going with his glory.
Oh okay, so check this out.
Oh bond qq, i’m a god, my name pronounced.
We don’t have it in navy blue.
We just got glow in the dark, but the glow in the dark do uh.
It’S a blue because you got green glow in the dark and then you got blue glow in the dark yeah.
So we will be having our website up coming shortly and we will have these on on the website for uh for sale as well as other products.
For the staff for boxing yeah read what eddie said, because i can’t i can’t really see, but i see what uh mr airpod said: devin dev, devin, haney or tank davis, but read what eddie barrington said.
First, oh hold up.
I want to answer this one right here: uh devin haley is i like the fact that his father is in his life and his father is uh very uh, instrumental in making sure that devin hanley stay focused and the thing that i admire about devin haley and His father is the father and son relationship to me.
I think that that gives him a little edge over t davis.
Now, i’m not saying that tank davis is not a phenomenal fighter, he is he’s box office he’s must see, etc.
But it’s just something about having your father in your corner, that the fighter fights a little bit more with determination like his will to not let his father down, because at the end of the day, a child being a male or female, see, seeks validation from their Parents and as a boy excuse me as a son, we always seek validation from the father me.
I never had a father, i’m gon na be honest with you.
My father died uh.
When i was in my mother’s womb, he died.
He was murdered june.
The 6th uh and i was born july 6, so i never had that type of father-son experience, so my heavenly father has been that person or that source that i go to to get validation.
But anyway, going back to this question.
I believe that it’s a toss-up because javonte davis he’s fighting for baltimore he’s fighting.
I mean he he’s a dog, i mean he got game and when i say game he keeps scratching uh.
I seen the fight when devin hanley went over to what it was uh.
London, yeah and yeah he was trying he really works.
You are not getting hit now tank davis.
I think he so my answer to that question is stepping backwards.
I, like both fighters – i’m not gon na pick, because i like both of them well i’ll pick, because because the last time when i didn’t pick, i think one of your friends from texas said you need to choose.
So i’m going to go with haney.
If you want to talk about their their fighting style and plus with what my husband said, because that’s just when we were talking about the hispanic community, they fight for their country and then they have their family.
Friends in the community come and travel far.
If they need to to come and support now, i think uh isaac, cruz and david hayney supposed to fight.
I wonder if that’s on my birthday, i wonder, if that’s is that september’s? No, that’s um! No is it.
You said who no, they just came out.
Wait a minute, oh, is someone’s fighting.
I think it’s um.
What is his name? He cruz um this weekend, no somebody’s fight, who’s fighting this saturday.
I believe it’s on my birthday.
I believe he fought that he fought tank davis and i cannot remember his name.
There’S a lot going on tank is a ko artist yeah, that is true yeah, but bon ki key yeah but – and you didn’t tank – is a knockout artist, but devin hainley man he’s oh eddie barrington.
Oh, this is his name uh.
Is it lou? Eisen ring talk boxing biggest controversies.
That’S his name! Thank you because i wanted to say his name, so everybody would know his name.
So when they go on the talk and fight website, they’ll be like okay, oh crawford is with jay-z.
What are you talking about? That’S what buddy just said: oh, where but buddy yeah.
What did you say? Oh yes, canin! Yes, alvarez! Yes, thank you! Eddie barrington! Now, who just said who’s with jc.
I don’t see oh, who oh no, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it’s canelo, canelo, oh yeah! We gon na watch that so jay-z the rapper crawford is with jay-z.
I did not know that crawford is with jay-z.
Listen, mr airpods one.
What’S the gon na collab in in bonn, i can’t really read.
Am i seeing that right anyway? Sorry about that big dog uh, he was with jay-z, oh okay, what’s this, you know how we were talking about communication.
Yes, jay-z got that mouthpiece, bro yeah he uh.
I will give that to him.
He does he’s come a long way, but you know 50 cents has that mouthpiece too and guess who else got my opinion, staffer, yeah facts and i’m working more on mine? Listen.
I have the plug right here.
Listen.
I would not leave no money on the table when i negotiate.
I don’t leave no money on the table.
I will get every penny, that’s deserved to me or our fighters, i’m the one who you want to be at that table on your behalf, validating for you campaigning talking to the right people looking into their eyes convincing them that this is the dollar amount that my Fighter deserves his record, the potential etc.
He’S markable.
That’S nothing! Oh baby.
I want to say his name, but you remember uh this weekend when we reached out to no don’t say anything right now.
We just because we want to get everything in writing yeah before we even say anything, listen y’all.
Where were when i tell you, we got some coming up what and if i see it the way, i see it in the spirit, [ Applause ].
Lord jesus help me oh – and i also want to put this out here too – that if you have something that you may want to talk about, or you want to know once again, email us at the stafford boxing enterprises gmail.
com, we love audience participation, because this is All for you all, this is not about us, but this is for you all man.
Thank you all for for tuning in watching commenting, i mean like man.
Let me just tell you how humble we are about the interaction that we received from people on the podcast and me and sh like we didn’t, even see this in our path.
No, you know what i’m saying and the fact that you got a king and a queen doing this on this platform.
It is very humbling and it’s going to continue to grow because we’re going to add new dimension to our podcast.
We have some some wonderful things in the works and it’s like you know we, you know we’re in the kitchen we’re in the lab and we stirring it up.
You get what i’m saying make sure we put a little bit this little bit dead thing up.
Baby should we tell them about? No, we can’t i’m talking about what we’re trying to do.
Well, what we’re going to do off of uh? Well, i wouldn’t say the name.
I don’t think i would even say well, we probably could mention i mean.
Maybe we should just wait, because if we can’t, if we can’t make an answer, then that means we just need to stay still see what y’all see is us like husband and wife like this is really how we act off the camera like we like this here.
If we can’t come up with a definite answer, then we stay still that’s what we have learned through studying the word of god.
If, if god didn’t tell us to do it, we ain’t gon na, do it, because when we know that it’s of god, we both feel the same way.
We agree on it, quick, it don’t take all that, but the fact that it took us all this time to come up.
We just decided that we just don’t want to you know and shout out to everybody.
We appreciate everybody who’s been supporting us who watches us whether it’s live or audio or just later on.
We want to say thank you if it wasn’t for you, we would not even be able to do this podcast.
The way that we do do the podcast and it’s growing, i’m podcasting and you know what shout out to uh uh wallow and gilly the kid uh million dollars yeah because worth the game and when we watch um, i wouldn’t mind having them on the show, because Gilly, the kid knows a lot about boxing and then i would like his cousin right now we’re about the same age bro, and i got a pair of handcuffs bruh that i will put on you bro.
I see that old left hand shot and, and i ain’t gon na lie – bro you in good shape to be your hey bro, but i am a lockdown artist.
I am a what you call uh a defensive juggernaut.
I will lock you down bro someone’s talking about bon ki keys, talking about the super bowl, because you were talking to somebody else.
He said chicago bears boy, ain’t, no way, boy! Stop.
What stop stop.
No chicago bears not winning no championship this year.
Bro.
You sound really difficult.
I impressed the thing from what’s going on boy.
Stop, that’s cow! You know it miss me with all that cap.
Okay, yeah! I ain’t gon na lie.
You cowboys fans.
I don’t wan na hit.
Don’T talk about no dog on cowboys, i don’t wan na hear and, and you falcons man y’all is praying.
He just said that he said look what happened to dallas cowboys and then he said, um bon ki key said: look at green bay.
Packers! The falcons is trash.
I haven’t watched.
The football y’all started once again, 18 points in the fourth quarter and you lose by one point against the new orleans saints okay, you lose at the crib bruh you y’all didn’t broke a player hard.
I don’t even have a favorite football team.
I used to rock with them falcon bruh, but man when they went down to the eighth time in front of the home team and y’all lost that super bowl.
I ain’t recovered from it bruh and and from that point on, i don’t i don’t even want to root on no no team.
No more! I like players, i don’t even like no t, i don’t have no team.
I just know the falcons had and and the quarterback he used to play for oregon ducks mariano.
Whatever his name is the boy fumble the ball on the snap, and it calls us man just itching.
I don’t know bro it just seemed like buffalo bills.
Is that it’s the real deal, buffalo tampa, look good.
Who else look good? I do i do agree with you.
Bon kiki the saints will lose to the chicago to chicago.
Yes, he said i’m team chicago all the way chicago everything taco bears ever since michael jordan left.
You know what i’m saying like chicago.
Is you know what i’m saying, but i ain’t gon na lie: y’all got jack levine, you got lonzo ball.
You got that boy.
Uh, what’s his name um he used to play for uh man.
What’S his name, i’m looking right at him.
He good too.
The lakers could have had that boy.
It’Ll come to me.
Forgive me, but no chicago bears is winning no championship this year until right.
Now you might go to probably go to the playoffs.
I think i might win a playoff game lose in the second round.
You know, but i mean anything can happen.
You know.
A lot of these teams are one injury away from having a disastrous season.
Just like the cowboys and uh speedy recovery to uh, oh yeah, that prescott man – that was that’s tough, bro.
It’S tough and i’m not a cowboys, fan your country wayne.
How about new cowboys omg, i wouldn’t mind having country wayne on here too.
We probably need to reach out to him too shout out to god he a man of god.
That’S why i like country wayne, we always be looking at country wayne, and we man, hey bro.
We like what you got going on.
We don’t see no cursing.
We don’t hear it it’s real life, it’s real life and then, if you like into god’s word, you can see you giving a a sermon.
You ministering through your comedy skit um ro is fantastic uh.
Might he funny mike said uh what you need? A back brace uh i mean he was like diamonds and pearls yeah diamonds in pearl cause.
You cause bro, oh so he at so bon kiki asked you.
Are you talking about demar derozan, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, derek jones? Oh shout out to all the women around the world who doing business doing big things.
It doesn’t even matter what it is that you are doing leadership position double salute to you.
No cappuccino for real got your back stick together and for all the black men who walking in integrity and who have character man.
I want to say thank you bro.
Thank you for not compromising.
Thank you for not putting yourself in harm’s way.
Thank you for not uh, being a [ Music, ] bad light to your family.
Thank you bro, because it’s so much out here that you can compromise for the sake of the dollar, so i just want to say thank you bro for not compromising.
Thank you.
So much i really appreciate y’all for those who are standing and walking righteous for those who who is walking that that walk for those preachers pastors who come before the people of god and who are not compromising the word of god who are not taking advantage of Our kids, who are not taking advantage of the congregation through tithes and offerings – i just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you because we need more great black leaders in our community.
That is not compromising the word of god.
That’S willing to stand even if it means death and that’s no count facts, but once again to all the women man say: man quit with this chicago bears: foolishness man, okay, quit it bruh the chicago bear.
Had one good game, justin phil had bret, we got 16 more weeks, bruh come back and talk to me at the end of the season, but for right now i understand you in a good uh uh a mood and you are supporting your team but bruh.
No.
Okay, so like check this out, we’re gon na switch it up a little bit so another thing of what’s going on in the streets, we have two rappers they’re young thug and young gunner here in the atl and apparently they’re being charged with a 56 case of Rico and it’s a gang that they also have, i think it’s young wait, wait, listen, allegedly young slime and now i’m about to say something good.
No! No! No! I i want to say before i forget young thug and gunner has done a lot of good for our community.
Oh yeah.
I was about to talk about that in that and the petition that he had for black artists too um.
We don’t know we’re not putting mud on their names or anything like that.
We don’t know.
This is just something since we live here that we’ve been hearing, the d.
a speak, the the d.
a talking about he’s, not playing no games, but he’ll give you 100 years boy.
No cat.
She actually said that they are not.
This goes for anybody when it’s relating to crime that she will not be making any deals with anybody.
You’Re just gon na get full-blown whatever they decide.
It’S just gon na be full-blown hey man shout out to eddie and our little niece.
I was gon na say that to you, oh and our nephew, i love our nieces.
I love our nephews, hey man.
This is a great father.
This dude here man you’re a young, dude, bro and um – i’m not going to share the things that he shared with us on social media, but we wouldn’t do that edit, but eddie, hey man.
When i tell you man, boy you’re, a good father man, you take care of them girls.
Every time i see them, they looking good, they’re, happy, they happy and my wife and i we always enjoy seeing them.
When we come to the gym and eddie.
I want to say in front of everybody: thank you so much for entrusting us uh to watch over your kids, your daughters, bro like for real, and when you ask my wife, can take your daughters to the restroom and stuff like that man um, my wife makes Sure yeah, that means a lot man, because my wife, she she wipes off that toilet, put the liners on there and she teaches them about having bathroom etiquette for a woman, a young girl and man.
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