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[, Music ] foreign boxing report, I’m your girl, Sheila, I’m your boy, Stafford, Stafford boxing, the making of Champions.
What’S going on everybody welcome! Thank you for those that are watching now and those that are going to be watching and or listening later today, we’re going to have a great show.
We have a lot to talk about.
What’S going on there’s a lot going on, we got our ears to the streets, the streets.
First, we want to recognize breast cancer awareness.
This is the month, but in actuality I understand that they have a month, but we do think about breast cancer and cancer throughout, and I actually met two survivors, this past Saturday, so everybody a hand, clap for them and we do send our prayers and support to Others that have overcome, and and or who is dealing with this yeah.
I was just about to say that and for those unfortunately, that are not here with us today: prayers to the families as well.
So I wanted to say that that’s why I am wearing my pink today: pink, pink, pink, pink, pink, pink, pink, so Stafford.
What’S going on, okay, there’s a lot going on uh! First and foremost, you wanted to talk about the um, the fighters Clarissa shield and Amanda.
They have a new belt yeah yeah, but we’re going to talk about that later.
So the first thing is: we had lady tiger on last week shout out for later shout out to Lady Tiger she’s watching we love you real talk.
We love you, lady tiger.
We I mean she has like kind of grown on us somewhat.
You know yeah.
I enjoy calling her yeah, it’s like when I call her I’m free.
It’S not a task she’s, really, a wonderful lovely person from the inside and the outside yeah she’s, solid she’s like she is, like my grandmother, yeah, to be honest with you, so I I told you we were going to keep in contact so and that’s what we Do and also, and also lady tiger, we are waiting for uh the production of our book markers.
So one of the things that we wanted to do to encourage kids to read is to develop our personal book markers because we have an event coming up.
Uh October 17th, yeah Monday a week from today uh at an elementary school here in Lithonia Georgia, yes in in Atlanta yeah Atlanta, Atlanta Atlanta, but We’re not gon na, say we’re not going to say anything but we’ll talk about it.
It’S the same day, yeah matter of fact.
After we have our event, then we’re gon na come on live on.
Our podcast show the Stafford boxing report and we’re going to talk about the event and uh we’re looking forward to it.
It’S such a blessing baby.
You know what we need to say shout out to our sponsor, though no go ahead.
Yeah go ahead, truest Bank, we want to say thank you so much.
Sarah Welch uh, Daryl MacGyver, want to say thank you to you both for us.
The grant being approved for our event on Monday man, we so excited we’re gon na pull out man.
It’S gon na be player down, don’t forget with the laptop jobs.
Mr Hicks, oh yeah, Mr Hicks.
We want to say thank you so much.
We we even having uh laptops being donated on behalf of the Stafford box report to these kids uh at the elementary school in in Lithonia, but right now we’re in Atlanta Atlanta, Atlanta, we in the city and we represented so hard as you can see, the drip Stafford boxing, it’s just dripping all over a second, oh yeah baby go ahead.
Show your footwork yeah yeah yeah, it’s it’s real! The drip is real.
I don’t I don’t.
I don’t want to do too much, but but lady tiger we got your package.
We’Re gon na.
Have you singing one of these hoodies? Oh yeah yeah? What kind of loose in the black little? Okay, blue? Okay, she did say: blue yeah blue! So we got you a blue one.
We got your wristband a sticker, a sticker and some books yeah the two bookmarks and whatever oh socks.
Oh yeah socks.
My bad matter of fact got the socks right here.
As you can see, you know what I mean.
We just Stamford down man.
You know what I’m saying we premium, we pushing P for premium, and that is no cappuccino.
Oh yeah shout out to our brother-in-law Chris West.
Oh yes, thank you, Chris for your support and your donations.
You know what next week we got to bring uh Chris book and show him some love.
Give him some advertisement, man, because they’re great you know he has another one out too.
Oh yeah, yeah yeah yeah, but the one that we got is the digital marketing.
I read that like ASAP yeah, I already did I enjoyed it.
Yeah I mean this is put.
Everything is put all in one and it’s it’s a great read it’s it’s not an overwhelming breed.
When I say it’s an easy read it’s because he doesn’t have so many pages and how the sentences and the words are spaced out.
It’S I loved it yeah.
So next week we’re going to bring um Chris uh cheatman west book uh, it’s called digital marketing.
I think everyone should go out and purchase this book and have a plethora of information about Marketing in the digital era that we currently live in.
So I want to give a shout out to Chris West and it’s not overwhelming it’s a great read.
It actually makes when you see the bug itself.
I want to read that, but so the way he marketed it he knew because with him had going to college – and he knows – and you know that sometimes the books that we had to read.
Oh, my gosh one chapter can be 17 dog on pages yeah, but baby.
Didn’T you also say in concurrence with that? Didn’T you say that um some of the stuff that he teaches yeah, I’m doing it now yeah and you read about it when you was going to school, yeah yeah yeah, so I was familiar with some of the things when I took some of my classes.
So, thank you Chris for everything and thank you so much for your support for real man.
It’S been so supportive yeah.
We pushing Pete for premium facts, oh and shout out to James Dunn too.
He’S also been supporting us on LinkedIn too, so shout out and shout out to Rodney Whitehead.
Yes, oh so look I want to bring this up the reason why I’m bringing this up, because the store that I’m going to tell you is going to be short.
Reminds me of lady tiger, and so many of our other ancestors and for those that are doing what it is that they’re doing now, whether or not if we know about it and we’ll know about it later or we do know about it now.
So it’s a book, her name is Esther.
This is in the Bible.
She was a Jewish woman and she was married to a Persian king and his name was Xerxes.
The first now Mordecai was her cousin and he worked at the palace, but he was a lower rank.
He was second in charge from the King.
Now Heyman didn’t like Mordecai number one because he was Jewish number two, because he would never bow down to Haman every time Haman came around so that wiggled his feathers, so he decided to plot against the Jewish people.
He wanted to destroy them.
He wanted all of them killed, so Mordecai went back to Esther and said: look Haman is plotting to kill all the Jewish people you’re going to have to go talk to the king, while Esther she was hesitant and the reason why she was hesitant was because, if You go see the king Uninvited, that meant death, but Mordecai reminded her look.
If you don’t go and tell this is going to be on you and it’s going to be heavy on your heart.
So Esther got the courage, she walked out on faith and she went and she saw the king and no, she did not get killed.
She actually had favor with the King, told him what was told to her and Haman actually ended up getting killed and the reason why I’m telling you this is because women have played an integral part of the reason why us women have what we have like with Lady Tiger she said they didn’t have a woman’s bathroom at the gym.
Guess what we have a woman’s bathroom at the gym, with showers to go along with that Asana that you like to go into staying room steam, room and um Whirlpool that you like to go into then the the the the pool the swimming pool.
So I wanted to bring that up to encourage all women around the world to keep your head up.
Keep yourself encouraged, make sure you’re around a group of people or those that are in your circle.
Make sure that you all encourage everybody, and I just encourage all women, no matter what it is, that you’re doing it really doesn’t matter, because you are doing something and you are making a way for others and you’re being the role model that you need to be For this generation and the generation after and after and after so stay strong, my sisters, real talk, real talk, real talk, um.
So with that being said, Sheila.
What do you think about? Let’S say the current affairs that’s going on in our community, because I know you have good and bad okay.
We have good and bad you’re always going to have good and bad in any Community.
But if we’re specifically talking about the black community, we need to encourage each other more.
We need to be nicer to each other.
We really do we’re so mean towards each other, just mean mugging, I’m going to tell you.
I don’t know.
What’S going on with some of these men, but for some reason sometimes, when we’re passing in different directions, they just like their body language and their spirit, is like.
I don’t have any respect or I don’t have any respect for women because you’re going to move now.
Whether it’s a man or a female, because some of the females do that too, it’s like they just do not want to move, and it’s just so petty.
I think the black community needs to heal.
I think the black community we need to hold each other accountable.
The black community, we need to truly love on each other, the black community.
We really need to listen to each other.
The black community, which you were talking about is the littering yeah, but but, but also we need to stop killing each other man I mean enough.
Is enough so much senseless death in our community? We can’t say the white man doing this or the the Asian man doing that or the Indian man doing that.
Yes, there is a system in place.
However, we can through our determination, because we come from good stuff.
Now you got to understand: our ancestors were on the plantation for, like 16 to 18 hours a day, it’s only 24 hours in a day right and the amount of pressure that they were under, meaning like they had to have a certain amount of uh crop that Come in meaning cotton, if they didn’t make that weight, it could be a lynching.
It can be a whipping or whatever we’re not under that those type of things today, and so I think what we under is uh slavery in the mind like we got to start thinking differently and one of the other things that is so disturbing that I see So much in our community is that we’ll be driving down the street and we’ll open up the door and just throw trash on the ground and when we’re in parking lots in different uh Food Markets.
We were just you know, go in the store, purchase, something and then we just throw it on the ground.
So now that type of behavior is being adopted by the younger people and so they’re doing the things that that they see us do and another thing the trash can be right there in your reach and we have become so lazy that we don’t even want to Keep our community clean and that’s why, in some areas of the community uh that we live in uh Builders, they don’t want to put certain businesses in those type of communities because vandalism um, you know just you know, breaking in the stores uh, you know shoplifting, Etc.
Et cetera, now, listen, I’m not trying to you know, sit before you here today and say you know: staff are being perfect or Sheila.
I ain’t been perfect or you know what I’m saying I didn’t have my time out there.
I really have.
However, I’m a tour – and I have grown as a man of God as a just a just a leader in our community, and I understand the responsibility so I had to you know, make a change and so that change come with from within and so, like.
You know Sheila was talking about.
You, know man, we got ta heal, it’s just it’s like it’s like so much so much hatred and so much um.
You know embedded pain, that’s in us that we act out towards each other, and I think that we should use that type of energy to accomplish our goals and dreams in life and towards a solid plan and one thing about the staff of boxing club right.
One of the things that we you and I talked about we’re not accepting our kids to adopt uh entertainers Behavior.
You know we want them to create their own identity.
Yes, you can find something in someone that you may like.
But, however, I don’t want to see.
Oh your hairs like that person, because you saw that on the TV or you wearing this or you wearing that and part of the staff at boxing club.
I slogan in Stafford boxing the making of Champions inside the boxing ring and out in the community, and we will not tolerate disrespectful talk.
We will not tolerate your pants hanging down because if your pants down they’re gon na hold you down, but if your pants is up or Mercy uh, you want to come up and that’s what we’re about we’re about.
Coming up in the right way and so Sheila and I gon na make sure that these kids do things the right way, because it’s like everybody, looking like everybody now I understand about change, so you have different type of hairstyles.
So now you had the the cheese with you guys little boys had a hair all down and that’s because they see the athletes and the entertainers and stuff like that and one minute it was like you know, and it’s just a lot going on.
However, our philosophy may not be for everybody yeah right.
It’S only for a peculiar group of people right, and so you know we want to.
You – know, make our change by not being like everybody in the community.
We are set apart to do something unique and special, but I wanted to um talk about because I saw Sheila doing a lot of researching and um on this topic, but the pnb rock situation – and it was sad to know that it was a father, son and Stepmother involved in taking this man’s life bro and he was sitting down breaking bread, eating some waffles and chicken, and that’s one of my favorite dishes with waffles and chicken, and it’s unfortunate that you took a man’s life over some jewelry bro.
He shot him.
A total of three times he shot him well.
First, his dad was already in the parking lot when he saw a pnb rock and his girlfriend come in so when he he saw that he left.
He went to go pick up his son who’s 17 years old.
He dropped him a little ways from the restaurant, so the 17 year old walks in goes straight to the table, points the gun at him and says, give me all of your jewelry.
Now he shoots him in the chest.
So when pnb rock falls down to the ground, he points the gun at his girlfriend and says, show me your hands and give me your money or I swear I’ma shoot you in the head.
So then she does what she’s supposed to do and then he shoots him pnb Rock, like two more times in the back.
So, while he’s gasping for air Clinging On To Life, he takes off his watch, his rings and necklace, and he walks out him and his dad are on their way to the house, while they’re on their way to the house.
The 17 year old disposes of his clothes and then both of them walk home.
Now they had arrested the father and the son first, but the third person, like you said, was the stepmother, so it was a family, a family.
Now all that energy that you, you know put into action to take someone’s jury, you could have put that same type of energy and with a plan you know coach Prime uh says something and it just been marinated on my spirit.
So much and I want to repeat what he said: we are in a black community.
We raising cats, we’re not raising dogs, we we, our men, are so feminine.
Now, bird, like, for instance, I go get some gas today, the kids they old enough to get out the car and pump some gas yeah right.
If that’s good enough man they’re old enough man, both of them were old enough, so their mama went in there paid for the gas and Mama came back out and she started pumping the gas and then pumped again so like when we were coming up – and I Know you say you know when I was younger, but I I like old ways I like when you know we say yes, ma’am and and no ma’am and yes, sir, and no sir uh, you know all this hey what they’re calling their mom or dad bro bro.
You see what I’m saying like there’s: no there there’s no distinction in terms of like you know.
I am the parent, you are the child, as the parent.
I will conduct myself as an as a parent must conduct him him or herself, and the child now acts like they are the parent and it seems like the rose, has, has changed and so like to me.
It seemed like this is more visible in our community.
Yeah and because you know I do see certain communities like the Hispanic Community, the white Community, the Asian Community – they still stick by principle.
They still stick to the code on traditions and so like we have gone so far off from we just don’t have no identity.
You know what I mean, and it’s sad, however, with me and Sheila is doing and we’ll continue to do is be a beacon of life in the darkness, and so I can’t speak for what that person ought to do or what this person should be doing.
The only thing I can do, and we can do together is make a change and from within and outwardly that it impacts um, a child, a couple of children, a group of people or anything or it inspired a nation.
You know what I’m saying, not only in Atlanta, not only in the United States but across the world.
That’S the type of light that we have in us.
It’S not just locally.
It’S globally man hold up man, hey man, I go ahead.
It’S like our community only believes that we can only be successful as entertainers and athletes.
Man and I think man.
We should really really take a look in the mirror.
We need electrical engineers, computer Engineers, we need uh lawyers, we need doctors, judges, we need city, councilman, men and women, we need and – and you know people say to fund the police and all that other type stuff.
I think we need the police, because if uh someone breaking your house or whatever the first person you want to do is call the police, you know what I’m saying, because if you don’t have the police, then it’s going to be chaos, so I’m not into the Funding the police, but what I am into is holding those who swore to Serve and Protect who violate that oath.
I think that there should be a level of accountability and, to me, I’ve seen some some black uh police Chiefs who are ahead of a police department – and you know maybe one of their uh colleagues did something wrong and that black Chief wouldn’t hold that person wrong.
Now listen accountable.
Now I get it when uh people violate the law, they should be persecuted.
I get that because you got to have law the word of God talks about it.
You know what I’m saying without it.
It’S not it’s no order.
God is a god of order, so there needs to be those type of things in place.
However, I just think that things have become so political that we are afraid to make decisions, because we believe that if we make a decision based upon what is the right thing to do, it may not be the most likable thing, and so we compromise our character And our integrity, so I was reading um John Maxwell.
I think he has the best of material as it relates to leadership, and he talks about like if you stand on principles, if you stand for what is right, if you stand on it in the beginning, it may be shaky, but if you compromise, for the sake Of pleasing someone or gaining some type of favorable response, you will lose everything, but if you stand on business, if you stand on principle, your character will be intact.
You will get more than you thought that you was getting because you stood the test of time and you stood on principles, and so that’s what um.
I believe that I see you know, there’s a whole bunch of other things, and we had to do that for another show, but uh.
I just think that us as a community, we need to do some self-checking facts.
Um I’m getting sick and tired of seeing us black kids.
Have you know, issues getting on the bus, okay, getting on the bus and then causing a disturbance, while the bus driver is trying to get y’all to school you’re fighting in the back, you’re doing all crazy type stuff, then you’re picking bullying on somebody.
But then you know, if someone do you like that, then you know what I’m saying.
So it’s me with all that cap.
Then the parents meeting the the bus driver at the location getting on the bus and you know what I’m saying so it’s a lot of stuff going on and when I look at kids um in other parts of the world, they are walking, hear what I’m saying They are walking five ten miles, one way just to go to school, just to get a fresh meal, okay and that meal may be powdered, milk and water.
That’S it that’s all that they family can afford, but the fact when they go to school they taking their education serious.
I seen kids walk across a bridge, a river.
I mean it in climbing mountains.
They can actually die and it’s been a few people that actually die for an education man and – and here it is you, get free education.
Now some people may say well man.
Well, we don’t have the same type of resources in our school as in another other community.
That may be true, however, everybody have access, Lord Jesus to the internet and in the library the library y’all are slipping on the library.
Let me tell you something baby.
Let me tell you something: I found the junior college that I went to go play basketball in in the library and when I got accepted to Georgia State University, I was at the library, the library like almost every day grinding and just reading books.
I’M talking about history, our history, I mean the things that I’m involved in with the plasma industry, and you know just understanding about just life.
Just grinding I mean I feel more comfortable in the library I do too.
I I do I mean that’s where I’ve accumulate a lot of knowledge.
Why people see people will say Stanford man, how come I’ll, never see you with no picture you in no Club bro.
I was in the library either the law, library or the library.
While everybody was out and and if that’s what you did – that’s on you I I don’t – I don’t have nothing against that, but for me I’m willing to die for knowledge.
That’S just me.
I I can’t like some people say well, man I got ta go get the bag well from what I was understanding from the word of God.
The the most wealthiest man in the world said that he wanted wisdom, and so, if you acquire the wisdom, you can obtain the knowledge to get that bag.
But if you just going for the bad, then once you get the bag, you don’t know how to maintain it like the old school will always tell me.
Stafford is one thing to get there, but it’s another thing to stay on top and that’s why we love custom model bro and his philosophy and and I ain’t gon na lie.
We we read that book every day, it’s a little bitty thin book on baby.
It’S an easy read: it’s an easy, so babe.
What did you like about Kush, though? Well? First, the thing that I loved about cuss is that he took he.
He gave the kids a chance, an opportunity.
He gave them an opportunity to open up his Mansion.
Oh, my gosh: did he and then his girlfriend was a part of it too? I can’t remember her name it’s from the top of my tongue.
Please forgive me because I don’t mean no disrespect didn’t work, even though they wasn’t married.
But if you read the book you’ll find out why he didn’t marry her, but I can see, don’t feel the beans I’m not going to.
But what I will say is I love the fact that they work together.
They really did love the kids and they cared about the kids and they wanted to know what the kids were going through, how they were thinking why they were thinking.
But the most important was that he put had them to start thinking, uh confident about themselves because Mike Tyson – and even he said it on interviews and some podcasts, he didn’t have confidence.
He had any type of confidence, but by time he got with cuss and the other kids boy Mike Tyson had come.
Oh that’s why I can’t wait to talk about the Eubank, senior and Ben fight too.
The these were the dads with the two guys uh Connor and Eubanks yeah – I’m not even we’re not even going to talk about that but yeah.
So I like that, so we’re going to get into that.
Don’T worry, but what else is going on? It’S a lot of divorces going on.
I have about six divorces over here now.
The first one is Tia Mowry and Corey Hardrick now Tia.
If you all don’t know, she played in Sister Sister and she’s.
Also on the daytime talk show the real married 14 years.
Then Tom Brady and Gisele Bundchen now everybody knows that he played for the Patriots, so he is now with the Tampa Bay Buccaneers.
I’M correct on that one, Mr football! No, no! No! No! No! No! No! No! But I do like the sport.
I know you do and they’ve been married for about 14 years, they’ve been having issues, but I guess the last straw was because Tom Brady decided that he wanted to play football baby.
You know what we got to keep it peace.
We got to keep it playing with the folks we are, but we’re going to talk about that.
No, I don’t want to say that, but I know we talking about um divorces and stuff like that yeah, but we need to share with them that both of us been divorced before we will.
But let me just finish this: first, we have Latoya Luckett and Tom tomicus Walker.
Now Latoya Luckett was the first original member of Destiny’s Child.
They were having some issues in their marriage during the pandemic.
They’Ve been married for four years, Anthony Anderson and Alvina Anderson.
This is her second time following for divorce.
Now, Anthony Anderson has played on Law and Order.
He um is on Black-ish and he also played in Romeo Must Die with Aaliyah and Jet Li.
We then have Ayanna, McNeely and Jarrett Jones she plays on Love, is Blind.
Netflix they’ve been married for less than two years and then the last one, which is DJ Mustard and Chantel McFarland.
Now DJ Mustard is a producer, so he produced Two Chains.
I am different.
Well, I’m different City, but he also is like the producer for YG.
The rapper out of uh California gotcha, but um I was gon na say to the listeners.
Is that me and Sheila both been married before and we’ve been divorced right, and so I don’t wish divorce on anyone and the reason why I say that, because it’s the amputation of one Spirit right, I wasn’t amputated, I was happy.
I went out and celebrated no listen to chill when, when two people come together as one and you depart part of you is gone right.
So even though you may say you may be happy, but that tearing of the spirit you have to allow yourself to heal.
Now the thing that I did was is that I allowed myself to heal.
You know, and I’m not you know, I don’t say this to try to brag or make it seem like I’m better than anybody.
I’M not I this is.
This is just a decision that I made.
I was single and celibate for two years and three months and when I met Sheila, when I saw I wasn’t even trying to holler at her, I really wasn’t, and it was only by the voice of God said that was her.
I was more so focused on.
You know my relationship uh with God on building my business CP plasma center.
I was so in tune with that, and also I wanted to you know, get to know who Who I Am A lot of times.
We get out of relationship and we don’t heal, and then we hop right back in another relationship and then that relationship goes sour because we didn’t give ourselves an opportunity here and then we trying to find each other a lot of times when you are in a Relationship there is a level of commitment that you must invest in that relationship, and so it takes so it takes away for you from you understanding who you are through trials and tribulations.
Now, I’m not saying that being in a relationship is a bad thing.
I’M not saying it’s a beautiful thing with the right person for what am I.
But what I am saying is that there is a time and a place for a male or female to be in a relationship with anyone right and once you get an opportunity to find out who you are.
You can be a better person not only for yourself but for the person who you’re involved with so I’m gon na use this situation relation with Sheila.
So me and Sheila.
We got married in what three weeks three weeks, three three weeks of meeting each other next month to be what 14 years, yes, 14 years right and so um.
When I met Sheila, like I said, I wasn’t trying to holler at no woman or whatever.
Now, I’m in Atlanta, it’s like 50 to one, but my discipline that I have like man.
I ain’t, you know what I’m saying, I’m not and me personally, I just don’t feel like you know.
I want to get my wood stick to any woman, just because it’s a feeling like man, I’m a player man.
You know what I’m saying when I say play, I don’t I don’t mean a womanizer or whatever you know a player to me means it’s just how he carries himself, how he valued himself.
Like you know, uh, I’m I’m just like you know what I mean.
I’M just that dude, I’m just full of God’s confidence that I don’t want to share myself with just anybody, because, oh you look good and because, when you run up in that girl, you know you abstract her Spears that she didn’t had previously.
So then y’all break up and that’s one of the things I used to hate Sheila was when you broke up with a girl.
You ain’t fooling her with her.
No more, then, you you going through withdrawals, you know what I’m saying, because you didn’t spiritually tied up with someone you, you weren’t supposed to be tying up with how.
However, that’s a lesson learned and that’s the experience and that’s the wisdom that operated to the table when it comes to our youth and under our leadership, is that man say yourself? If I can do it all over again, I would have saved myself until I got married man.
You know what I’m saying a lot of times in our community.
We uh, you know scrutinize those who have uh not have sexual intercourse.
You know what I mean.
Oh you’re, a virgin, I think, being a virgin is is, is Honorable because it requires a high level of discipline and that’s the thing that it’s all about with me is discipline, and so you know going back with you know with Sheila.
You know so when I met her, I didn’t compare her to any other woman.
It was just all about Sheila, you get what I’m saying and so by me, focusing on just Sheila.
Our marriage has flourished, even through some extreme difficult times that we didn’t been through.
Not once had we ever thought about departing from one another, and the other thing is that God grew me to be mature, so that you know Sheila has some things in her that she didn’t know that she had until she got with me.
But it was my patience see to me, you know people say you know, love is a feeling.
I I think love is a mindset, you know, and that goes from, like you know, being in different, I mean excuse me being in different relationships and then being in a marriage and then having your spirit amputated you, you walk away and you allow yourself to heal, But you have to be a hundred percent of what’s left in you to that next person, and so all the stuff that I hadn’t been through.
I’Ve given Sheila a hundred percent of what of who I am based upon what I’ve came out of, and so for me that old, puppy, love and all that, that’s that’s just a feeling to me.
Love is about this a decision.
I love Sheila.
So much I don’t want to hurt her, I’m not interested in another woman.
You know what I mean, I’m really not.
I ain’t into that side.
Piece of none of that I’ve been there done that.
I don’t want to hurt her.
You get what I’m saying so love to me at this point now.
I do have deep feelings for her.
You get what I’m saying, but at the same time I realize love to me is about a decision like I love the kids that we’ve been entrusted with that I don’t want to do nothing to to to to hurt them to get what I’m saying I don’t Want to do anything in the community to lose my face call and it ain’t about my status.
It’S just that man.
I love my community too much not to be another one.
You know what I mean.
I don’t want to be that and but every day I I wake up and I get into that word and I pray and I’m no different from anybody.
I’M just like you, you get what I’m saying there is no difference.
The only difference is it’s.
My mindset and everyone can have that same type of mindset, if you would discipline Yourself by reading by separating yourself from people that you should not be around and that’s what I also see.
I see a lot of, I see a lot of doers.
You know what I’m saying like, for instance: life is a jungle, you can’t be no [, __ ] cat meow in this jungle.
Bro you get eaten alive.
You got to be a a lion.
You got ta, you know what I’m saying you you that’s what you got to have in you lion, lioness and everybody think, because you know Sheila is beautiful.
I want to say you look beautiful in your thank you, but I want to explain, but when I said I celebrated because they don’t and they don’t know.
Let me tell you now everything that he said was correct, but for me the reason why I did was because it was a very heavy low that I had on my shoulders to the point that I was not walking with confidence.
I wasn’t even walking straight up.
I was walking with a hunchback and my husband would always get on me about that, and that’s because yeah I had a defeated spirit.
I had a broken spirit.
I was I’m not even going to tell you all, because I’m it’s not meant for me to tell you all now or whatever, but it’s I celebrated, because I was free.
I was not free.
When I was married, I wasn’t, I was not free.
Are you free now Sheila super free, so when yes, so I did celebrate, but I did take that hurt and the pain that was put on me.
I didn’t heal.
So during that time I was doing some things and that’s when I met my husband.
So unfortunately my husband had to do, but you know some of that stuff that made me a better man, but some of the things I like he said.
I didn’t know that I need healing and when he kept on holding me accountable and then he’ll point for love and he’ll Point some things out to me.
Yes, it was hard at first because your your use doing something because it’s it’s your your comfort and it’s something that you allow like your walls are up because you don’t want to be heard anymore.
So that was two of the reasons why? But now and I’m still healing now – I’m not perfect, but I feel so much better.
Can I say so that’s why I said I celebrated, but not everybody’s, going to celebrate.
I totally get it, but for me I did thank you for the clarification.
Yes, because you were going to start tripping, no, no foreign, I got to give credit what credit is due.
I am a man who never had a father.
My father was a heroin addict.
He was murdered June.
The 6th I was born July.
The 6th I lived in foster homes I lived in group homes um I lived with so many people growing up.
I’Ve been in you know.
I just been in some very difficult situations.
However, the first time that I ever seen a very successful black man was, when that I can, just you know, kind of like admire was uh Pastor, Creflo, a dollar uh, pastor of World Changers, Church International in College Park, Georgia, and one of the things that I Had admired and still do is his level of commitment to his wife, Pastor, Taffy, and for me that was the first True Image of what a successful marriage looks like and I’m not saying that they didn’t have issues or whatever they had a whole bunch of issues.
Running the church, uh having kids, raising them and you know the personalities that those kids have Etc, but when I seen him and I loved the way he spoke, I love the way he dressed.
He was the first man that I seen with a three piece with the with the chain.
You know the pocket watching from there.
I was like boom and he is also responsible for us baptizing me, so I want to give past a dollar so much uh, recognition and respect for being a leader.
I know that you come under scrutiny about you, know, Prosperity, preaching, Etc, but had it not been for your obedience to study God’s word and be a living example in the black community in College Park, I wouldn’t be the man that I am today.
I wouldn’t uh have the discipline to read and study my word, the way that you taught me many years ago and I wouldn’t be the husband that I need to be for Sheila and I really do appreciate it and one of the things that I really.
I really did like was that you had a yellow bone.
You know what I’m saying: pastor tapestry, a Yellow Bones, your likes, your light skinned, a woman, and so at the time when I was married, you know before you know she wasn’t yellow bone and no disrespect with her.
But but once I got out of that situation, you know, God knew what my heart was.
I wanted to emulate you.
I wanted to be be that stand-up guy.
I wanted to be uh that businessman that entrepreneur that I see in you and I admire, and I respect – and I appreciate you not folding but standing strong through all the attacks that you have received um over the course of your ministry, and I respect you and I salute you: it’s a lot of great things that have come out of world changes and I’m one of them and I’m proud to the other person that I really want to give a shout out to and he’s going home to be with the Lord.
And I just want to say during that time uh when I joined this ministry, it was a very difficult time in my life and I was Raising.
I was going up in the ranks at World changes, but when, when when, when word changes and New Birth had uh uh, they had like it was like a Bible study at uh Phipps Arena.
Now it’s State Farm Arena, and I just heard the Lord say: hey man, you gon na, have to go to New Birth and I was very popular.
Had World changes and, like I say I was you know on my way.
However, I fasted for three, ladies because I wanted to make sure that I really heard God, because I really loved word changes and I did it the right way I prayed.
Then I asked then I went to project change and I asked him to pray me out.
So when I went over to New Birth, it was more like a a I don’t know.
The spirit of God was just on a whole nother level, but it was just on a whole nother level like at word changes it’s a Bible Teaching Ministry, but at New Birth it was.
It was just a whole, so there my spirit really got even Bolder.
They had some of the most sophisticated and permanent men and women to come before the people of God and to speak some very powerful words.
I met so many people.
My life has changed.
I, even I don’t know like New Birth is like that that church that Ministry um really changed my life, and I really appreciate it was so many um significant people relationships that I’ve developed.
While I was a member at that particular church and foreign [ Music ].
I know some of the folks, but I don’t I’m not with that.
You know I never speak on another’s man.
I the word of God, said you don’t speak on the man of God.
If you, let God deal with that, and so I know he’s up upstairs and I pray he looking down on me being proud of the man that I’ve become under his teaching under the ministries of New Birth.
So I just want to say thank you to both of those Ministries for pouring into me and to uh setting an example.
You know [ __, ] Salon.
He was real.
He dressed real smooth too.
I I like that.
I, like his Spirit.
He was very powerful.
He was a great speaker, um, and so there was a lot of business sadness that I got out of that Ministry about marketing.
It was just a lot I learned.
So all this you see the staff of boxing and all that that come from game that I got from that church and from New Birth on the Bishop, Eddie L long and from Pastor dollar.
So you know I’ve always been a hustler.
That’S that’s just who I am and but, however, I’m I’m hustling for the Lord and and me and Sheila are servants servant, leaders and trying to serve these kids so that they can have opportunities and experience things that can help them shake and grow to be champions.
In the four corners of the boxing and in life, amen, I’m gon na go through this real quick, because I have to talk about the boxing what’s going in boxing, but since we were on the marriages I looked this up.
I never knew what a reconcilable differences actually meant baby.
You said it right.
You’Ve been practicing that word, I’ve been putting it in how to pronounce, in other words too.
So this is what it means.
The couple disagrees on such a level.
They can no longer sustain the marriage, they can’t reconcile or resolve their differences enough to reunite or coexist within the marriage.
So a few examples is differences of opinion on having children or how to raise children.
Different religion, personality conflicts, excessive fighting Discord, lack of communication, a loss of trust, lack of contribution to the marriage or the household tension from family involvement, hmm disagreement over finances and debt and inability to find a work home life imbalance.
I didn’t even know what that meant.
I just know that when I was looking to see and the those that were getting divorced and what they would put down on paper, I can kind of see it.
So that means that you have so much pride, and you can’t humble yourself that you’ll just go ahead and get a divorce you’re going to have to come to a common ground, sometimes as women I’m not going to lie.
Sometimes we just need to be quiet.
I still struggle with that a little bit my husband was like you just need to be quiet, sometimes your breaks hot boots, and – and he is right with that – sometimes we do need to be quiet.
Sometimes the men do need to be quiet.
As far as with the communication, we don’t communicate because we’re too busy they’re calling out names cursing being over exaggerating with our Behavior being irate, then the children they see things they hear things and what’s the point of being married, if you know that you’re not going To listen or you can’t come on a common ground or agree so baby.
I love my marriage.
I swear, I told hey.
Look at here.
I’M gon na tell you right now: oh shout out to Eddie Barrington.
I’M telling you right now and my wife will tell you and I mean is with everything in my life and every man hold up.
If the Lord was to take her before me.
Man go ahead and take me man, I’m ready to go because there’s nowhere in the world that I can live without my wife, it ain’t it ain’t got nothing to do with no no money.
No none of that ain’t got nothing to do with no sex.
No! None of that I love my wife.
I think the journey that we’ve been on has has strengthened.
The Rope or Mercy has strengthened the Rope and I was born and our covenant.
It has gotten stronger, it has gotten bigger and I don’t there’s.
No other woman will ever give me her heart loyalty and then I every woman got baggage.
Everyone got some type of baggage bro and no I’m I’m good.
You know I’m good, I’m good baby and – and you know what Lord thank you so much for having the opportunity to walk with this woman to grow, and I could not be the man I am today without my wife, no cappuccino, thank you and vice versa, for Real and everybody, I love you too, and everybody know every time they see me stop away your wife at because they know man how I roll man and man.
I want to say man shout out.
God bless his soul, man, it’s a rapper.
His name was Fat.
Pat, he was out in Houston, Texas.
He went to word in Maine.
He was Sterling my bad Sterling, a real player man and for me I don’t know man to this day, man, I still listen to that man, music bro.
You know what I mean chopped and screwed.
I’M saying I know who you are when you’re coming down like a superstar that peanut butter inside hey man, look at here, I’m so H-Town, but I love Atlanta.
Wait a minute hold up hey.
I love Atlantis, [, Music, ] boxing and then Eddie Hearn, because he’s he’s, I don’t think he really remembers what it is that he says.
That’S why you have to be careful what you say, especially on video, because people are gon na dig things up, and I know how to dig things up, and I know how to research and I’m learning from people too.
So I’m going to be careful of what I say always because anything can anybody can bring anything up on you, so you might want to take notes on that, especially to our younger generation.
So we have this shield and Marshall fight October 15th.
All females all athletes is going to be big but they’ve added on another bill.
It is called the Elizabethan belt in honor of Queen Elizabeth wow.
So that’s another belt, that’s been added.
We also have the international women Boxing Hall of Fame they’re, inducting 16 women, retired they’re, all retired retired boxers, and this one is going to be the largest it’s going to be in Las Vegas Nevada.
At The Orleans hotels casino.
This is going to be the largest one and it’s in its big time and I’ll name, some of the women that are going to be um inducted so that are inducted.
It’S Rose: trentman, EBA, Jones, young Hannah, the Vegas Fox and Frida cheetah Gibbs, but that’s just some of them, because it’s 16.
16 is going to be 16 people and they’re going to be making their decisions and they’ve had some new people coming in that are going To be talking – and it just keeps on getting bigger and better, and I’m glad that this is going on so every all the female Fighters, the athletes the boxers, because some of the female boxers they say that they like to be called athletes.
So that’s why I’m putting athletes in because I don’t know who does or who doesn’t so I don’t want to show hot rod for winning his fight.
Oh that’s right! Oh, but you know what I knew he was gon na win, no, no respect, but you can just tell sometimes like if someone’s just I bought a gorilla for real, just went all in so shout out to Hot Rod.
So let’s talk about this Connor and you thanks fight.
Now I watched the dads fight man.
That fight was so good.
It was so entertaining and Eubank senior you talking about someone who had confidence man, the way he would just stand straight up and he wouldn’t even go straight into his corner.
He’Ll just stick around.
It was like he was posing and just looking at everybody in the crowd.
So when the commentators was like, I don’t understand why he won’t go into the corner, he’s just out there posing for the people so Eubank senior.
He he put it on him, but but then he he was good too.
It was they both, and you know what made it really good because they were both using their defense.
They were constantly moving, but not moving that much.
Sometimes they did use too much energy because they would swing and they would miss or they would just swing when they shouldn’t swing, but you should see, go back and watch that fight now that fight right there.
That was exciting.
So this is where the Suns come into play, so we all know that Conor failed his test.
Why did you fail because he was tested with clomevine? I pronounced that right.
You, you you’re getting better, because what I do is everybody.
I write it how it’s pronounced, so I won’t forget, so this is used to induce over ovulation it’s just pretty much a fertility drug for women that cannot get pregnant and who want to become pregnant.
We’Re just going to make it sweet and simple, but it makes the man strong yes and gives out excess testosterone, hey I’m getting better, but it also masks.
It covers up from previous use of steroids.
Now, allegedly Eddie Hearn has known about this two weeks prior, but let me put you all up on game: Daily Mail was the one that spilled the beans and, if it wasn’t for them, then that decision wouldn’t have been made that the fight was going to be Canceled because they were going to go on and continue with the fight, because that’s what Eddie Hearn said now, let me tell you: oh before we go any further, Dr Usman sahai, who is Connor’s doctor.
That’S the one that took down his website and his IG account.
What so, if you’re not doing anything wrong and you’re a sports doctor, why would you take? Why would you take all that down if baby didn’t you say he had needles and stuff, but yeah like on his IG account and he had a needle and then it said in all capital letters TSR very it was very strange and then you also tell me That he’s on the federal investigation.
Excuse me my bad, my bad.
Let me erase that Earth allegedly.
I thought that’s what I heard.
I’M sorry, let me erase that my bad, my bad, so let me tell you earlier in Eddie hearn’s career what he said he said.
What’S the point in signing up for drug testing, if, when you fail, everyone just goes, oh, don’t worry about it, just let them fight.
So I think he really took seriously what he said because he wanted to continue to let the fight go on but check this out.
Now they have a rehydration clause and Eubank senior does not like this at all.
Now he told his son, don’t do it.
I I would tell my son, I wouldn’t even have our Fighters do it, because it’s it’s too much, it’s it’s just too close and you’re putting the fighter.
That’S going to be doing the rehydration and the one who’s not going to do it in danger.
So you expect Eubanks who’s, what 167 no 160 and drop to 157.
so the day of the weigh-in you’re supposed to sweat and lose all this weight.
But then you can pack eat whatever you want and, and he said that he was going to eat, cake or not cake.
He was just gon na well, he did say he was gon na eat.
Some cake, though, that he did say, but he said he’ll do whatever he needs to do to have this fight to go on, but I wouldn’t do it and Eubank senior said I’ve already lost one son.
Oh, I don’t want to lose another son and then Eddie Hearn is okay with this and he was like it has to be 10 pounds.
But the least they’ll accept is nine pounds and I say: don’t do it because okay number one you’re putting your own self in your own health at risk.
That’S number one because dropping that type of weight in such a quick period of time.
I’M sure Fighters have done that, but it’s it’s not healthy.
It’S not good and then to have a fight when Eddie Hearn hasn’t been all the way truthful because allegedly he was looking at other commissions to continue the fight.
But then he turns around and says no.
I wasn’t looking to have other people, but you’re.
That’S what I’m saying like you keep on forgetting what it is that you’re saying so either you’re gon na say one thing or you’re gon na say another thing, but I don’t like this at all and to Eddie Hearn.
You are not an honest man and for you to be a promoter and then all the fans are unhappy because they spent their money.
They probably might have taken off from work.
I I don’t know so you want this fight to go on so bad, because you want the money in your pocket, but you’re not concerned about any fighter, and I get it if you’re, if, if you’re a manager, if you’re a promoter right and you have a Fighter and then you have somebody else, that’s gon na you know fight and they’re being promoted under another promotion company.